I like how sometimes articles pop into my head from discussions we’re having. On The Midwest Lair Facebook group, a guy was talking about how Rooshv said: “If you are being called creepy, congratulations, you just went from being asexual to repulsively sexual, which is progress” something to mull over for the new guys and a good frame spin everytime a set goes bad.”
I actually agree with this. I replied: “It’s not that big of a deal. I’ve had at least 1 girl naked who would call me creepy when I was giving her goodsebumps and getting her horny.”
But it also reminded me of this classic post by 60yearsofchallenge – one of the best out there for pickup and seduction articles. Without more blah blah from me, let’s get into it.
Ew, he wrote me a note, that is so creepy. Aw, he wrote me a note, that is so sweet!
Guys don’t get enough practice being seductive.
They have tons of practice being social and opening “sets” but not much practice being seductive.
If you want to be seductive you need to risk creepy. In fact, there is no way to avoid creepy. So you might as well admit it right now. You are creepy. But don’t worry, the so called “creepy” guys also get laid the most.
Don’t Fear Creepy
Using seductive eye contact, looking at her lips while thinking about kissing her, and talking really slow can put women into a sexual trance.
But women will try to scare guys off their seductive game with the threat of the “creepy” label or the “ew you’re creepy” look. And guys will never be at their seductive best if they are still scared of creepy.
Ew or Aw
The threat of creepy is a bunch of crap.
Creepy is just a TEST women use to scare clueless guys off.
If she likes you, you are sexy. If she doesn’t like you or she feels you are not in her league, then you are creepy. This can change day to day or even moment to moment. You can use the exact same eyecontact and touch on two separate girls and one will call you creepy, the other will think you are sexy.
Which is the truth?
Realize if a woman gives you that “you’re weird” look when you shut up and hold eye contact, it really just means she is trying to break the tension because she is getting turned on.
The implication that you are creepy can also be due to her not wanting to seem like a slut. She is turned on, but she’s pretending she isn’t. She may even tell her friends later that you were hitting on her and it was creepy, but that’s only to protect her social image.
Of course there will be times when you try to be seductive and get blownout. For example, you hold seductive eye contact but she gives you a weird look implying you are creepy. Then she gets up and moves her seat further away from you. Ouch!
But there is really nothing to fear. It’s no different than a verbal blowout. I would much rather have a creepy rejection than a verbal one.
I really enjoy creepy. In fact, I love creepy. I just love putting the pressure on her. Watching women fidget and get nervous. Awesome! I can’t wait to creep some women out tonight.
I know creepy is the label you fear.
It is the reason you hold back and don’t escalate the vibe. The reason you stay in social mode. You would rather get blown out being cocky and disinterested than with seductive eye contact. This way you can keep your cool guy rep.
Your biggest weapons for seducing her are eye-contact, moving closer and touch. And they all come with the risk of creepy.
Be seductive. Risk creepy.
The Real Meanings of Words
Guys need to get over their fear that starting a conversation with a stranger is “weird”, being seductive and escalating is “creepy” and pushing things sexually is “perverted”.
- Risk Weird
If you are being social and start conversations some women will try and test you by saying or implying that you are weird for doing so. Or they will give you that “this is weird” look. Not every guy has the confidence to approach a woman, but it’s definitely not weird.
- Risk Creepy
When you are being seductive women will try to scare you off with the fear of creepy.
- Risk Perverted
When you are being sexually aggressive women will try to test you by calling or implying that you are a pervert. As if this is a bad thing. Yet many guys are scared of the pervert label as it conjures up images of an old guy jerking off in a porno booth. You want to be a pervert.