The Seduction of Rainbow Dash Part 3

Tsod:

This is where I continue the stylishly cool journal type conversational thread ala Bram Stoker’s Dracula about the Seduction of Rainbow Dash.  If you’re like, “WTF is this shit?” feel free to check out The Seduction of Rainbow Dash part 1 and part 2.  We Start with a reply from someone about what you would have read in those last two articles, from the Super Secret Message Board I am a member of.  For fun and for ease of reading I will make my replies in Italics.

« Reply #7 on: January 24, 2013, 06:08 PM »

That’s why, I believe to number close few chicks, when going out. Decreases needs of dealing with BS situations like that. Anyway good job Ronnie.

« Reply #8 on: January 25, 2013, 01:52 AM »

BS – – – ? The best and most fun stuff is playing this kind of game; especially when…

Well. Especially when we end up back at my place in my bed completely naked doing naughty shit to each other

But ya, man. That texting was fun. So was dealing with her other shit. She’s 21. If a guy thinks a quality 21 year old chick is not going to give them shit to have to bypass then that guy probably hasn’t slept with many.

In the long run, she has/had fabulous titties, ass, legs, yummy vagina and more. So to me a little text battle is WELL worth the payout. Dude… She’s SOOOOOoooo Sexy.

So EVERYONE have hope- This 39 year old dude, Not like Hot and Sexy and In Amazing Shape, but probably an Average in appearance 39 year old dude, just got with a 21 year old who said guys CONSTANTLY hit on her.

I’m twice her age. FYI. I don’t ever want to hear ANY excuses from anyone why you can’t hook up with this chick or that.

« Reply #9 on: January 25, 2013, 10:58 AM »

One quick cliff note anyone can use TONIGHT.

LMR/Buyer’s Remorse destroyer (Credit Sonics) – You say to the girl when you are starting to get hot and heavy, “No matter what we do tonight, promise me it wont be the last time we see each other.”

Use your own words. There isn’t a magic phrase. I might have even said, “…promise me it wont be the last time we chill..” or “promise me we’ll hang out again after this.” Whatever makes sense when you say it. Of course, Don’t say it if you don’t wanna see the chick again, because it works!

LMR is GONE. And if you want to see the chick again you Win. For a LOT of chicks you can turn them into repeat customers.

Text from this morning (If you like the chick (wanna see her again) and you get sex action going on you should DEFINITELY send her a follow up text or call the next day, as well.)

Me: Had fun last night, brat. Have a good day

Her: Thanks Cutie 🙂 You too

Something about having a sexy 21 year old chick calling me cutie that floats my ego a little…

« Reply #10 on: January 25, 2013, 12:23 PM »

Well, txting as such is definitely fun, if you got time… Something, I’m lacking recently This is definitely a true PUA skill, not to downgrade you, but 39 hooking up with 21 year old, is like a typical L.A story, where young chicks hook up with older guys with money. You did it simply using skills, so kudos ( I assume you’re not a millionaire )

« Reply #11 on: January 25, 2013, 02:14 PM »

Quote from: Ronnie L-Train on January 25, 2013, 01:52 AM
If a guy thinks a quality 21 year old chick is not going to give them shit to have to bypass then that guy probably hasn’t slept with many.

Great point. I’m in LA right now, where there’s an incredible amount of hotties. I’ve also never seen so much shit from chicks. It’s ridiculous. I mean if you pass a chick on the street and just say a friendly social “hi”, they will NEVER respond.

Anyways, great re-frame in the texts. Especially when she started turning around – you didn’t bite initially and went with “however”. But also at that point you didn’t push her away too much. I’m definitely going to learn from that.

Here’s my question: how long was your response time to her texts? Often when I’m texting I’ll feel that what I initially want to respond with isn’t good, so I have to take time thinking up something better…

« Reply #12 on: January 25, 2013, 02:59 PM »

Well, L.A is a different lifestyle. Priorities for people over there’s nice car, clothing or hair. In Chicago for instance, people rather spend money on the nice house, than a brand new luxury car. Over there’s Hollywood, Beverly Hills, so go figure. Night Game, however, (and keep in mind, I only did one night of gaming there) is quite easy. Girls were really responsive, I’d say even more than in Chicago.  I couldn’t close for logistical reasons (I had a job training at Long Beach, and hotel was booked there, so quite a distance), but I believe it was doable.

« Reply #13 on: January 25, 2013, 03:51 PM »

Quote from: ********** on January 25, 2013, 12:23 PM
Well, txting as such is definitely fun, if you got time… Something, I’m lacking recently This is definitely a true PUA skill, not to downgrade you, but 39 hooking up with 21 year old, is like a typical L.A story, where young chicks hook up with older guys with money. You did it simply using skills, so kudos ( I assume you’re not a millionaire )

Yes, just skills. And this was no easy feat. When I started Kino last night she called me on it. “Why are you touching me every chance you get!?”

Lots of frame control. And then we got into a conversation about how she though I was so much older than her and she thought it was weird for me to be touching her. All it took was for me to get her talking about other guys she has hooked up with. She admitted that she dated a guy for a while (but never slept with him, it sounded like) who was 35. So once I got that out of her I was like “blah” and where I used to dive in, back in the day, and try and focus on and fix the resistance, I just danced around it and went right back into talking about sexual stuff.

At first she was shy, we were in a restaurant with almost no one there and her social programming was like, “I’m not sure I feel comfortable talking about this in public.”

And I gestured to the empty tables and referred to the nice Ethiopian lady and said, “You mean all these people listening in on our conversation, and our waitress who barely speaks English?”

So more and more we started talking about sexual stuff. It’s hot, because these younger girls seem so much more experienced a lot of times than women who are my age. Maybe it’s porn but they always do something sexually that surprises me, that I’m like “where did this girl fucking learn this stuff?”

Anyway, no… No money. And I don’t think it’s the classic LA story with these Chicago girls at all. I could easily think back to times where I would have failed miserably at a chick like this. Frame control, reframing, dealing with shit-tests, being quick on my feet and lots of leading. I’ve closed lots of chicks up till now, and I can tell you this could easily have been fucked up at so many points during this interaction it’s not even funny. This is one of the ones worth writing about because it was so difficult.

L.A. Story – one of my favorite movies back in the day…

Quote from: ******on January 25, 2013, 02:14 PM
Quote from: Ronnie L-Train on January 25, 2013, 01:52 AM
If a guy thinks a quality 21 year old chick is not going to give them shit to have to bypass then that guy probably hasn’t slept with many.

Great point. I’m in LA right now, where there’s an incredible amount of hotties. I’ve also never seen so much shit from chicks. It’s ridiculous. I mean if you pass a chick on the street and just say a friendly social “hi”, they will NEVER respond.

Anyways, great re-frame in the texts. Especially when she started turning around – you didn’t bite initially and went with “however”. But also at that point you didn’t push her away too much. I’m definitely going to learn from that.

Here’s my question: how long was your response time to her texts? Often when I’m texting I’ll feel that what I initially want to respond with isn’t good, so I have to take time thinking up something better…

At first with the girls I make them wait. Even this chick, we did some texting before the text example above, but in that case it was more pinging, fun texts and just me keeping myself on her radar. In that case if they are responding I will wait a LONG TIME to actually respond. I don’t want to make text a conversation, but I do want to use it to keep me in her mind.

Look at it this way, if you say something fun, and she responds, then she is waiting for you to respond. Now chicks are WAY better at this than we are IMO – you will never see chicks (cute, sexy ones anyway) doing dumb shit like texting, then texting you again to double check their text;

IE:

“What are you doing tonight?”

“Oh, well I hope you’re not too busy because it would be nice to see you.”

Or some shit guys might do. But still, the whole time we make them wait you are at LEAST in the back of her mind. That means on some level, she is thinking about you.

But then sometimes I’ll reply once or twice pretty quick. I like to keep in mind Raccoon Theory. Always keep them guessing. If you ALWAYS do the same thing she will expect it. So Change it up. Actually the more she seems invested in a response from you the LONGER I would make her wait for that answer. Always try to end the text on a high note so when she’s thinking about you it’s a good thing, expectation, not a bad thing.

In the case of her flaking texts, I responded not like too fast but at the same time just matched her response time. Look, if she wasn’t interested AT ALL she would have never even texted me in the first place. There was a part of her that wanted to hang out on some level, maybe even on some deep level. That doesn’t mean she would have, if my text game wasn’t on point she just simply would have backwards rationalized, “Yep, that guy sucked. I’m glad I didn’t go out with him.”

The text convo from above was her LAST CHANCE to me and there was a time I for sure would have blown it, and I am of the belief that MANY, MANY guys would blow it as well.

I mean, I’m pretty sure in many places it’s STILL community Dogma that, “If a chick tried to flake on me I NEXT HER! My time is very valuable as the Alpha Male and I don’t have time for Flaky Chicks.”

However the women I’ve talked to, including LESBIANS, have informed me that Flakiness is actually to be expected. It’s NORMAL. So guys who are saying, “I don’t have time for these flaky women,” are probably either not getting any ass OR if they are they are only used to getting (to coin a cool Chicago Lair phrase )the Low Hanging Fruit. The whole Alpha Male shit about Nexting a Flaky Bitch comes from Inexperience and Overcompensating the lack there of, with trying to make oneself feel like an Alpha Male; when in reality it’s just protecting one’s fragile ego and feelings.

You can’t Next a girl you never fucked. ~Tyler Durden

So when it came to the text convo above she was responding rather quick and so I could as well. But the SLOW texting that I was doing before probably made this MORE possible being that I wasn’t coming across as the “needy, clingy guy who always texts alot”.

Make Sense?

« Reply #14 on: January 25, 2013, 04:45 PM »

Ronnie, did you go dutch at the restaurant or did you pay?
Also did you pick her up (via car)?

Just curious.

« Reply #15 on: January 25, 2013, 05:13 PM »

I paid. I wanted to go eat out. That was the plan.

To help you understand my philosophy on this, I have heard many different beliefs and it comes down to what David X once said:

It’s not about whether or not you buy her drinks or dinner or whatever, it’s HOW you do it and WHY you do it.

I didn’t buy dinner to impress her, I bought her dinner because I wanted to go out to eat… So I picked a cheap Ethiopian BYOB very close to my place…

David X Quotes, “I don’t give a shit what she does with her dinner. As far as I’m concerned I bought it for her. She can eat it, or pick at it or throw it on the floor. What the fuck do I care? I bought it for her, I don’t give a shit what she does with it at that point.” When talking about a date he was on where the chick was picking at her salad instead of eating it, and commented about it.

To me, if I want to take a chick to go eat, that’s the choice I made. I think a guy who AVOIDS going to dinner because he feels it’s supplication is NO BETTER off than the guy that supplicates to the chick and pays for her shit expecting something in return. (Wrap your mind around that one… )

Oh and I ALWAYS drive if I can. But if you don’t have a car most definitely plan your date close to home OR Cab > Train/Bus.

Next:  The Finale….. Stay Tuned!~

Sidecar:

Of COURSE this post reminded me of a cool ass movie I used to watch when I would substitute being lonely with Romantic Comedies …

If you haven’t seen it, though, watch this movie anyway.  L.A. Story is the Shit!

I’ll actually probably watch it tonight for fun.

My favorite line from the Movie:

Sara:  It’s nothing that some sleep and a good fuck wouldn’t cure, as my sister used to say.  (You have to see the scene to really appreciate this line.)

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