But here’s the thing, man. Anyone who ever wants to have some cool shit learned on this topic in a cool ass way, throw this on in the background while you are surfing the web and start paying attention to when you start hearing the chick talk… (I have a wing and friend who told me one of the things I do best is start a conversation with someone like we were already in the middle of a discussion… 😉 )
I don’t wanna be a mass personality. I don’t wanna be a “one-dimension”. I wanna be me. I wanna be human. I don’t WANNA BE A SLAVE!
We dress a certain way, we walk a certain way, we talk a certain way, we create a certain way, we paint a certain way, we… We make love a certain way. You know. All of these things we do in a different, unique, specific way that is personally ours.
I wanna do this the way I wanna do it. I wanna determine my own destiny.
And we decided that it is time for us to take over our own lives and do it the way we know we wanna do it, as opposed to someone else continually depersonalizing us and telling us how we’re supposed to do something, because they’re viewing us through THEIR eyes, NOT through OUR EYES.
But FIRST, learn to love yourself. That is, your REAL self. And that’s very hard to do and I’m still trying to do it.
The process of change is very painful, and it’s very tedious, and it’s very SLOW. The process of change comes through conflict… Sometimes, even, you know, even suffering. Of being aware. Observing yourself. Watching yourself. So you can begin to LOVE yourself. And if you can love yourself, there ain’t nothin’ you can’t do, you know? Then I say, “I love myself so much that I can start loving you, and you can start loving me.” And the next thing is to begin to try and love someone else!
But to the degree to that you give love, is the degree that you get love back. So that if I ain’t got none in me, I can’t get none back. It don’t matter whether they’re a doctor, lawer or indian chief. It’s not, “I am a… a.. I am an Actor.” Or, “I am a Doctor.” It’s, “I AM!” and if I AM, there ain’t nothing else that’s important.
Coming up in The Midwest Lair
The ZAN Lair talk…
What: Zan Perrion Midwest Lair Talk
When: Sunday, June 14th at 7pm CST
Where: Skype or Google Hangouts – Stay Tuned
That’s right. The man, the myth, the legend – Zan Perrion himself will be giving a talk for us. I couldn’t be more excited and you know that it’s rare that a seduction or pickup coach impresses me. 😉 This is one of the greats who was already great when I was still a scrub-nub learning the ropes.
Zan Perrion is a writer, author of Alabaster Girl, motivational speaker, and life coach based originally in Vancouver, B.C. One of the founding members of today’s “burgeoning community of international pickup artists”, he has advocated a more natural and enlightened form of interaction between men and women.
How to get involved?
Join the lair then once you’re accepted click the link below link… See you on the flipside.