Microcalibration Mini-Course – Everything You Need To Know to Step Up Your Game to Another Level

Microcalibration

Ah yes.  So many completely are unaware of the concepts these days, or are doing it completely wrong.  And yet this is SUCH an INTEGRAL part of game, probably one of the top 5 things you should REALLY know and know WELL if you ever want to get past the MASS approach and into a little more finesse based game.  This is the shit that separates the men from the boys, so to speak. Many guys may think they know this but most guys I come across really do not.  That’s why a MAJORITY of guys either have problems with cocky/funny, push/pull or negs, or getting dates, or why so many guys JUST CAN’T SEEM to hook those sets – because they are simply unfamiliar with this concept.  This is the basic groundwork for much of your game.  In other word, if you don’t know this your game is probably pretty bad.  When you know this you wont do things like talk about (anymore) how negs don’t work, or ask questions about how come a chick lost interest after you riddled her with IOIs after she was giving you IODs.

This started out as a pointer I gave to a guy who posted an infield video of him doing some approaches in the Midlair, and I wanted to help him understand what he was doing wrong. EVERYONE NEEDS TO KNOW THIS.  I mean, you don’t NEED to know anything, really, but this is something that is KEY to pretty much every one of my Lays and IMO is a key element to the concept of what game is.

I think, personally, I am writing this because I am lazy a little and I think this will be a great link to just copy-paste when so many new guys, or even experienced guys have the same issues over and over.  This is DEFINITELY a compilation of OPP (other people’s posts) because I really don’t feel the need to rehash other people’s shit and take credit or try and reinvent the wheel.

This is ABSOLUTELY meant to be a mini-course on Microcalibration, so that if you read, watch and study everything in this video you really should have a pretty solid idea of what Microcalibration is and how to run it in field.  So take your time, book mark it if you need to because there is quite a full course in here and it may take you a bit to get through this and understand the process (especially since there is over an hour of video work alone)  But DON’T SKIP AHEAD!  Do this in order for best results.  Let’s get started.

A simplified micro-calibration version is basically if she is giving you IOI’s you give her IOI’s spiced with IOD’s as intermittent rewarding which will lead toward compliance.

If she gives you an IOD return with an IOD then follow it with an IOI giving her a chance to redeem herself.  This is important.

1. HB: IOI -> PUA: IOI or  IOD -> Repeat

2. HB: IOD -> PUA: IOD then IOI -> Go to option 1

Lovedrop’s Example:

Is there some way to soften the impact when showing interest, enabling you to get away with it while still preserving your own value and her comfort levels?

Yes! Simply calibrate the IOI by adding an IOD at the end. For example, if I say to a girl, “I like you,” that is obviously an IOI. Therefore, I will calibrate it by following up with an IOD such as, “. . . Too bad I’m not sure about you yet.”

Mystery might say: “Wow, you are amazing.” [IOI] “I mean, don’t get me wrong . . . in five minutes you could say the wrong thing and totally botch it.” [IOD] In this way he balances interest with disinterest, enabling him to get away with much more than otherwise would have been possible.

The bit of disinterest at the end is what we call an IOD Calibrator, because it allows us to calibrate the impact of the IOI. Mystery teaches to always soften an IOI by adding an IOD calibrator at the end, which allows you to get away with significantly more escalation than you otherwise would have. Gambits and touches that would normally be interpreted as too forward—and thus resisted—are instead welcomed. For example, let’s say that you take a woman’s hand in yours for some innocent and harmless thumb-wrestling. But . . . by taking her hand, you have also just telegraphed interest, and that IOI could very well make her feel more resistant, causing her to pull away. Therefore, you must balance the IOI of taking her hand by adding an IOD calibrator such as by telling her, “Don’t get any funny ideas.”

It’s this slight bit of disinterest that makes it possible to get away with holding her hand when she normally would have pulled away.

Another example of this is to lean back and cross your arms (IOD) as you say, “I’m curious about you . . .” (IOI).

Another example is to hug a woman (IOI), and then push her away saying, “Ok that’s all you get.” (IOD).

Another example is to look away (IOD) as you put your hand on a woman’s shoulder, (IOI) and then a second later, look back in her eyes (IOI) as you release your hand from her shoulder with a little push (IOD).

So, the first principle of microcalibration is to always increase the effectiveness of your IOIs by softening them with an IOD calibrator. This principle should always be at work in your social behavior.

The next principle in microcalibration is to always return disinterest for disinterest. If she gives me an IOD, then I must give her an IOD as well; otherwise I would be rewarding bad behavior. When I take her hand, I am calibrating in real-time to her responses. Does she put her hand in mine and squeeze it a little? Or do I detect even a slight resistance? If I feel that she is pulling back, even slightly, then I will pre-empt things by throwing away her hand.

Because she gave me an IOD (the resistance I felt in her touch), so I will return with an IOD by tossing her hand away with a dismissive brush of my fingers, as if I were discarding a piece of trash. This is called a hand-throw. If you do this properly, she will feel a powerful jolt of  devalidation which will condition her to become more compliant in the future, as well as prompt her to put more effort into gaining your attention and approval. She may even become indignant. I’ve received more than one angry “Did you just throw my hand away?!?!” Women really feel the emotion generated by a well-executed hand-throw.

Sinn’s Example:

This article will assume basic knowledge of the following:

In any human interaction, there are only four means of communication that take place.
IOIs indicators of interest
IODs Indicators of disinterest
DHVs Demos of high value
DLVs Demos of low value
Add in Compliance Tests (CTs) and a base line of punishment reward and you have social interaction in a formula.

This came about because last year I was finding that with some girls I had to neg a million times to get any IOIs while with others they would ask me for my name  right after I opened or tell me I was hot. If I continued DHVing they would get weirded out. However if I started qualifying them it often didn’t take. So I started  putting an IOI in before my qualification attempt it went better.

Wrong
Girl: You’re cute! Where are you from?
Sinn: Buy me a drink before you hit on me! IOD What do you have going for you besides your looks? Compliance test

Right
Sinn: Buy me a drink before you hit on me! IOD You are very pretty IOI.. but beauty is common what do you have going for you besides your looks? CT

The balancing of IOIs and IOD is a key element.

I think of it as a seesaw:
If I throw too may IODs that weighs down one side of the seesaw and I’m an asshole.
If I throw too many IOIs that weighs down the other side making me an AFC
But if I adjust every IOD with a potential IOI and every IOI with a potential IOD I attain balance and my sets work like magic.
Microcalibrating is simply throwing the balancing part of the equation(IOI or IOD) when needed .

Sometimes, for example, you will get sets that will be attracted to you as soon as you open your mouth. Or before.
If a girl approaches you and says she likes your cowboy hat, and you respond with Jealous Girlfriend, you are going backwards in the interaction. By her opening  you, she is telling you she is already attracted to you. Therefore we can respond by saying “thanks, what’s your name?” which would be an IOI in return for hers. We can say then based on how readily she answers. If she’s hesitant or doesn’t immediately ask for my name or try to keep the conversation going (IODS). I will then respond with my own IOD ” buy me a drink before you hit on me”. Then immediately follow up with a compliance test ” and your special because?” when she  answers this I am now in A3 and can start giving her IOIs.

In this way I have now gotten through attraction in 30 seconds.

However if she refuses to answer or she IODs me when I ask her why she’s special, I still have an out…

Her: ” I’m not special ” or ” why are you special?”
Me: Never mind I was just being polite( IOD) oh you have a u shaped smile… ( DHV)

See how there are contingencies of what to based on what her reactions are?

For those of you who are routine stacking it would look something like this:

Her: ” I like your cowboy hat”
You: ” Thanks I actually need a female opinion, who lies more ”
Her: ” opinion”
You: FTC finish opener, stock neg, First routine, next routine ….. Until you get enough IOIs that you start qualifying and it takes.

By not pausing and looking at reactions you are assuming that what you are doing is working. Which it may not be.
By being able to read IOIs we can move into A3 Faster and ultimately into comfort faster and beyond.
Also by knowing that we are getting an IOD or an IOI we can calibrate any routine mid stream to either IOI or IOD.

Take for example the “may I touch your eyes” Line
Sinn: “You have beautiful eyes” IOI
Girl: while rolling her eyes and thinking another loser ” Thanks” IOD
Sinn: May I touch them? IOD

I change the routine based on the reaction she gives me.
However if the same interaction takes place but goes like this:

Sinn: You have beautiful eyes. IOI
Girl: “Thank you so much no one ever says that to me.” IOI

Now I have a sincere response so there is no need for me to throw the second part of the routine.
We want to be able to compliment girls and give them IOIs, however most girls will not yet be comfortable with that until later.
Microcalibrating is simply the act of watching responses and then tailoring the next action toward the response we just got a simplified version would state that we respond to IOIs with IOIs, IODs with IODs and we constantly test for compliance.

Through microcalibrating based on reactions while following the M3 model we can greatly increase our ability to get results. Microcalibrating also has a place in kino escalation.  If I make out with a girl on day 1 and then see her again the next day I will want to test to see where her willingness to kiss me again is, so I microcalibrate. I move in as I hug her and I pause. I now watch to see if she looks nervous or uncomfortable. If she doesn’t I go for it. If she looks uncomfortable then I push her off  and increase personal space so that the next time I get close she’s more comfortable and I can go for it. Same thing once we are holding hands I will slide my finger tips away from hers to see if she follows them. Is she does I will pull her closer to me, if she doesn’t I  throw her hand off.

A key to microcalibrating is remembering that IODs are not always negs. It would be weird if when a girl refused to qualify herself I told her she was a little shit. Instead they are simply ways of showing that we are not interested, they can be removal of kino, backturns, pauses in the conversation, eye rolls, as well as negs and  disqualifiers.

A few other keys to micro calibrating by watching the reactions you’re causing you can either soften or harden a routine

EX:
Sinn: You and I are never going to get along”(IOD)
Girl: why not I think we’d get along fine (IOI)
Sinn: we’re too similar IOI But I think our differences will be complimentary IOI
Sinn: You and I are never going to get along”(IOD)
Girl: You’re right we wouldn’t
Sinn: Yeah we would fight all the time, and I’d always win (IOD)

If a target at any time gives me an IOD i will respond in kind. This is the punishment part of our punishment reward sub routine,
however if we are already in comfort the punishment will no longer be negs, instead it will be take aways, and freeze outs. If at any time she gives me an IOI even if it’s as passive as holding my drink, I will reward her until she becomes uncomfortable and gives an IOD then we respond with another IOD, wait for an IOI and if it doesn’t come we compliance test to actively look for IOIs. We can also do this by balancing the amount of value we demonstrate onto a set.

Not every set needs to hear a million routines before they will be willing to talk to you. If have run more than 2 routines in a set and you are not attempting to move on to qualification (A3) you are hurting your game. You want to make sure that you are constanly testing to see where you are. And then trying to advance at the same time. Micro calibrating makes it easy by throwing little adjusters depending on the responses you are getting.  It’s not at all reactive to apologize when you over-neg. You will lose a lot more sets by continuing to neg once you’ve offended then by apologizing and qualifying her for standing up for herself.

Microcalibration is the art of adjusting what you’re saying in real time to the reactions you are getting.

Now let’s put this all together.  What does Microcalibration look like and how do we do it?  Well I found this great video on youtube that explains it pretty damn well from Mystery and the Venusian Arts crew back in the day.

Questions, comments, concerns?
~RL

By the way, I gotta give credit where credit is due.

If you want to learn more about all this shit from the sources I provided here check out:

The Mind of Mystery Course

And

The Sinns of Attraction

Oh and for all you Infield Junkies I will be posting the video and my responses to the guy in the Midlair over the next few days so stay tuned.  You can subscribe by email or twitter or whatever over to the right.

Questions, comments, concerns?

~RL

SIDECAR:

If you know microcalibration, you MAY want to know what bodyrocking is and how to do it.  Again, I dug up another video from Mystery and the crew on that as well.  The best I know, naturals, puas, lesbians, myself, all incorporate a lot of bodyrocking into our game.  It makes you more hypnotic and attractive and sends mixed signals on a subconscious level to those girls you are interacting with, which in the early stages of the interaction can be an invaluable tool to gaining attraction.  Also this video talks a lot about delivery.  If you can incorporate all these things in this post into your game you will see a HUGE improvement, I promise.

Enjoy:

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The Girl From Uruguay

Yeah, yeah, yeah… I said I was going t update this like a week ago I think.  Well, that’s the way the ball bounces G.  I guess, fuckin… I decided JUST NOW to finish part 2 of the Double Penetration Cliffhanger Challenge (I’m Assuming that’s what DPChallenge means) and the problem with that is, I have finished off 3/4 of a bottle of red wine and thus my smartaleckee antics have decided to put down on my fucking blog, meanwhile I listen on pandora to a song by Skinny Puppy

Yeah yeah yeah… Not very seductive I get it.  But now you have WINE Ronnie to deal with for this report.  But in a moment you will have Seductive Ronnie to deal with…

Oh, by the way…  Here are 2 Pandora stations for you people who listen to that song above and LIKED it.  I have a lot of Industrial and Goth in my blood, though I never quite dressed all in black and snorted Ritalin or ate a bunch of Ephedrine all at once.  I just appreciated the dark side of the music.  Oh ya, the stations:

Ahh shit, wait.  I just realized I can’t share them because they are attached to my pics and my real name…  Well, if you really want that shit you’re gonna have to ask me in the comments below and I will email you the links.  My Pandora stations are all badass.  They have been tweaked and tweaked and tweaked – even to the point of sending GOOD songs on the WRONG station to a different station where they do belong (Thank God Pandora added that feature).

Oh ya..  Fucking Tangents.  I remember what we were supposed to be talking about?  The PART II of my story (over to the right! —>

Alright whatever, dude.  Just click this link.

Ok here we go.

The Girl From Uruguay

Postby Geese Howard » December 28th, 2008, 4:34 pm

It’s 7:17 and I had a gnawing feeling that this chick, We’ll call her HBUruguay because she lives there and is visiting some mystery people for the holidays, was gonna flake.  Everytime though I would force-visualise her showing up to train my brain to expect in instead of focusing on the negative.  Here it was almost 15 minutes after we were supposed to meet and she still hadn’t arrived.  No call no text…  Nothing.  Yet here I was still waiting for her to arrive…

I get a text just as I’m about to leave (Louis and Copeland 15 min rule) Java Hutt saying, “Are we still on for tonight?”

Me:  Ya, I just got to Java Hutt so I can chill with my laptop.

The reason I threw the name of the place in the text was so if she was confused she could find me – since she wasn’t from around here these days and I wasn’t sure how long ago it had been since she had been.  It was a good idea since like a minute later she came walking up from across and down the street with a coffee in hand, which told me she went to AJ’s and NOT Java Hutt.  She wasn’t late – just lost. :p

I was outside smoking as she walked up.  I gave her a hug to test and it was pretty stiff.  I busted on her for it, “What was that supposed to be?”

HBUruguay: That was a ‘I’m holding a coffee’ hug.

So we chatted a little and she immediately suggested where SHE wanted to go for drinks.  The thing was, is I had no idea where I wanted to go and lately I’ve been experimenting with the idea of allowing the chicks to suggest a spot.

WHY?  Because I have been finding out some really cool motherfucking day2 spots this way, that I would have never found out about had I not.  Detroit is riddled with little hidden treasures that are not at all out in the open.  Some don’t even make any sense.  Picture a spot in the middle of the ghetto area that on a tuesday night is assholes to elbows busy with rich suburbanites.

Or another example is, where we ended up last night – Baker’s Keyboard Lounge.  Reported to be the World’s OLDEST Jazz Club.  Apparently HBUruguay lived in the Detroit area 5 years ago before she moved with her parents to live in Uruguay to help her ailing father out.  This place is near the corner of 8-Mile and Livernois.  You may have hear of 8-Mile from Eminem’s movie.

So let’s back up a little:
Her:  I want to go to this little Jazz place, but I can’t remember what it’s called.  Bluebirds or something.  On 8-mile.

Me: (I knew the place she was referring to because I have heard several chicks talk about it but had ever been there as of yet.)  All I know is wherever we go they better have Campari.

Her:  I’m pretty sure they do.

Me:  And I’m not sure about the place you’re talking about but I love an adventure.  Here’s the deal (I say that alot) we can go there for 1 drink but unless it’s really awesome… I have a short attention span and like to bounce to different places when I’m out to keep things interesting.

Her:  It’s a really cool Jazz place.  Unless you were think you were gonna say, “I know – let’s go back to my place.”

Me: Yea, Don’t think you’re that lucky.  I’m not just a guy you can have your way with.  You at least have to buy me a drink first.

Her:  Buy YOU a drink?

Me:  Yea, but no promises.  And not saying if you will, but if You were to come back to my place I could show you my Lavish Fireplace and My Library inside of my international art gallery that I live in.

Her:  Is it a real fireplace?

Me:  It would appear that way.

Her:  With real wood logs that actually Burn?

Me:  I mean, it would seem that way.

Her:  That’s what I thought.

(I was referring to a Windows Media Player Visualization called Yule Log on my laptop and using S-Video I plug my laptop into my TV which is HUGE so…   :p  )

Me:  You’re used to getting your way aren’t you.

Her:  Yes.  Actually I am!

Me:  Well I guess we’re fucked, because I am too.  Let’s just shake hands now and go our seperate ways. (bodyrock away then back while extending my hand.) Pleasure meeting you.

She laughed and I think I told her, “Man you look fucking cute tonight.  I love your coat, it’s hypnotic.  You better not be trying to hypnotize me with some weird voodoo love shit.” (using appropriate hand movements and facial expressions – I love hintdropping about what I am to the chicks.)

So I let her drive.  While we were walking I threw a line out when she was talking about the club.

Me:  How do I know you’re not gonna take me somewhere where this guy’s gonna be waiting behind the door to club me in the head with a blackjack, and I’m gonna wake up on some table as part of some weird ritual or whatever?

Her:  You watch too many weird movies.

Me:  It could happen.

So we get to her car and off we go in her nice clean rental.  We arrive at Baker’s Keyboard Lounge after I let her get lost a little so I can neg her.

Me:  Am I gonna make it back home tonight?

I made a couple different comments about her driving but not too much.  As I said in my FR to this LR, I don’t TRY to neg or c&f anymore because really it’s something I naturally will throw into a conversation anyway.  If I try to do it on purpose it gets a little too dicky or even comes across as confrontational.

Also we discussed where she’s from, Uruguay.

She was telling me all about the difference between Uruguay and Paraguay and how much better Uruguay was for some reason and so for the rest of the night whenever the topic came up I would mistake her as being from Paraguay.  For the rest of the night at periods of time we would retouch the subject and I learned some interesting facts; one being that Uruguay is known for having really good Beef, however due to recent droughts their cattle market is suffering a little.  Also, she said there is an Irish Bar in Paraguay – oops – I mean Uruguay  near where she lives.

She also started talking about how Michigan people use the Hand to show people where they live.  I said, “I make fun of people that do that.”

Her:  It makes sense, like if someone lives in the thumb they can point to where they live to show people.

Me:  I think what you mean is people in the Thumb are the ones doing  the hand thing.

The other thing she told me was how this was pretty adventurous for her, and that her friends were saying, “You’re crazy!  You don’t even know this guy!  You only just met him and you’re already going to meet him out somewhere?”  But here she was anyway.  Good old, “Attraction isn’t a choice…”   I played with it a little but I can’t remember what I said.

So we arrive on our second day2 venue.

This place was hoppin.  We got there and it was already packed with excited guests and a full bar with the smell of Soul Food wafting through the air and punching me in the nose in a pleasant way.  Btw, for those of you keeping score at home, she payed for parking and cover for both of us to get in; $13 so far; mainly because I kept the frame, but not too pushy like, that this was her idea so there was no weirdness for her in any way to flip the bill a little.  I tell the hostess, “Give us a table for 2 and a good one.”

She does – we get a seat center stage – I mean dead center.  No band yet because keep in mind the meeting time was 7:15 which means shit don’t start till 9:30 – 10 which give me PLENTY of time to run verbal game.  They got these cool little 2 seater booths which are IDEAL for couples.  I let her slide in first and then slide in next to her and the she shit tests me.

Her:  “What’s with all the crowding me in.”

I look at her funny and get back up while saying, “Well then you sit on the outside and you can have all the room you want.  I like to relax.”  We switch and she sit’s away from me.

We order drinks.  She gets a Bailey’s on the rocks and I order a Negroni  which is 1oz each of Gin, Campari and Sweet Vermouth on the rocks with an orange slice garnish.  They don’t have it so I cue up on something simpler – a Colorado Bulldog which is 1-½ oz Vodka, ½ oz Kahlua, 1-½ oz milk, and a spash of coke on ice in a highball.  I never had one before this but it was really fucking good.

The things I did – Well, let’s see if I can list them out not necessarily in order AT ALL.  I’ll get to that later. (if you wanna know something ASK and I will be happy to give you details.)

+On the fly patterning.
+Incredible Connection
+Wants vs. Craving
+Everyone is so different but the same pattern (more connection)
+Push Pull I.e. “I like you, you’re super fun.  I mean don’t get me wrong you could totally fuck the whole thing up, but SO FAR you’re a pretty cool cat.” (Edit on a Mystery sound bite – in my own words)
+Discovery Channel (open loop, never closed)
+Style’s EV (open loop, never closed)
+Twin Brothers Scenario (open loop, never closed)
+Let’s see if we fit. (Kino gambit from homeboy Sonics)
+Constant Kino (Sonics)
+Kino Escalation with takeaways and fractionation.
+Snoopy Palm Reading (credit – Matt Savior, Juggler instructor)
+Learn to love yourself (My own)
+My first memory (My own)
+Bubbles – Kino routine (My own)
+The breakup and exes (My own)
+My mother told me that I got culture shock when I was really little (sound bite to suggest I’m VERY different)
Are you into PDA?  I love PDA. (sound bite)
+Say more please. (sound bite/compliance – Ross Jeffries)
+We’re only here for 20,000 days (sound bite)
+That’s all you get.
+The best you can hope for is Amazing company and Great conversation.
+TV Commercial (sound bite – Ross Jeffries)

Jesus, I just realized something.  I always thought I didn’t use or even know that many routines.  I never actually listed them.  I use a lot of motherfucking routines.  I’m impressed.

I guess the reason I didn’t know I used so many Gambits was that I so not have a structure to my game.  I just plow.  Meanwhile I know that most of the Verbal Routines I used early on while escalating Kino while closing the gap.

I’ll explain a few – keeping in mind I know pretty much the beginning from the end but not necessarily the exact order.  I do know key moments though.  Before it was just fluff, getting to know and push pull, and I was practicing Questions into Statements.  Then I know in the first half (I will call it) I used the grounding stuff.

My first memory:
“When I was little I lived in Frankfurt Germany and we stayed in this place called the Hessesher Hof for a while before we moved into an apartment.  I remember being at breakfast one morning and We hadn’t ordered yet.  All I knew is that I wanted Belgian Waffles.  I just totally had this huge craving for em.  You ever get a craving for something? “

Her: yea.

Wants vs. Cravings pattern which was also one I picked out of a video that he made up with a student as an example for training people how to construct patterns.

Then back in:
“So the waiter came over and brought out food and he gave me Belgian waffles, but I never ordered them.  I said to him, ‘How did you know I wanted Belgian Waffles?’  He said, ‘Because that’s what you get every day….’  And the moral of the story is?” and I pointed to her.

Her:  That you like Belgian waffles.
Me:  No.  That’s when I discovered I could remember stuff.  That was my first memory.
I was like, “Wow!  I can remember things!”  (end thread – stack forward)

Soon I was grounding a little about how I’m a bartender, a social guy and different than other men.  This was where I used the “culture shock” sound bite and then “The Breakup and Exes.” routine which is a true story I use in a lot of sets.  When I’m explaining my lifestyle to them, and making myself out to be free spirited and social and a lot of times they ask me questions about my relationships.  In this case she asked, “So what’s the longest relationship you’ve ever had?”

Routine (true story) The Breakup and Exes:
Me:  I dunno, probably a year, but that’s a LOOONG time for me.  I had those a couple times.  They were fun but I’m not gonna string someone along if I know I can’t be what they want me to be.  And they were fun relationships.  I still talk to most of them.  Right now I have a girl that still calls me 4 years later and another one who I still talk to 6 years after we hung out.  We just touch base on the phone from time to time.  It’s because I don’t really think of relationships like a lot of people.  I figure if shits not gonna work out it doesn’t mean anyone did shit wrong or whatever, it just happens.  You share the fun good times and learn stuff together and then whatever happens and you break up.  But it doesn’t have to be weird or angry like most people think.

I’ll give you an example.  One girl I broke up with; the day we broke up this is how it happened.  I took her to lunch in Royal Oak, we chilled and relaxed and had some wine, I bought her this nice choker, we went back to her place and made love…

Her:  And then you broke up…?
Me:  And then we broke up…

I guess I just think differently about shit.  My mother said I got Culture Shock when I was little.  I was back and forth between here and Germany at a very young age so she said I was very different in a good way.  Like I could look at life and see it as an adventure.  I just -go with the flow- I guess.  I mean, what about you…  What are you Passionate about?

So from here I got her talking about passions first then broke into Style’s EV.  I got three answers out of her.  The first answer was her Son, and the second was that she felt that she could show him the world THROUGH HER EYES and the third was Proud (after prompting her to get past her first answer of “Great.” or something).

I never did finish the ending because she asked me, “Why. What do you feel passionate about?  Probably being social.  That’s why you’re a bartender.”

Well, ya.  I do love being social,  but I’m really shy and have trouble meeting new people.  I never know what to say.

Her:  Ya RIGHT!!
Me:  (Grin) No, I’m SERIOUS!!

But then she started giving me shit about going with the flow and how it doesn’t work and isn’t practical in life.  How people who do that can’t be successful or whatever.

Me:  I think you and I are actually agreeing but perhaps we are thinking about what -go with the flow- means differently.

Here, Give me your hand.

Routine (Bubbles – Borrowed from a concept I learned about before PickUp which was from – of all things – A Video Game for the PC.  AD&D Baldur’s Gate.  You could play your characters a certain way and at a certain point in the game it went into this story about how my character lived his life and it was pretty cool because it made total sense to me – so I revived it and use it as a Kino Escalation routine.)

She does and I hold it and draw on it (got the idea from some other PUA – Mehow maybe? but incorporated it into my own routine.) Ok, one might say that life is like a bunch of bubbles (draw bubbles on her palm with your hand) and that they are flowing in a certain direction (trace your fingers to show her the flow, silly!)  Now, there are those who go with the bubbles and do what they are supposed to and what’s expected, and then there are those who go against the bubbles (you are drawing all this btw) because they want to try and do their own thing and that’s what they think it means.  Now that cover’s most people.  But there are a certain few, like maybe 10%, maybe even as little as 1%, who bounce from bubble to bubble going whatever way they want whenever they feel like it.  If they wanna go somewhere else, they can just bounce  from one bubble to the next without getting wrapped up in one direction.  That’s what I mean by go with the flow, but I guess that’s not really going with the flow at all, now is it.  (end thread)

So she agreed but still started giving me shit about how it doesn’t work (but I was kino escalating which was the point.)

So I said, “Does it not work for everybody, or does it not work in your own experience.?  Look at it this way…

Routine (“Learn to love yourself” – I got it from a House track way back before I studied PickUp and memorized it.  I didn‘t have a reason then, but now I do!!  This is a GREAT routine to get a chick to POWERFULLY feel like she‘s an individual who can make her own decisions, as well as instilling in her resistance to the Fatty pulling her away, ASD, Societal programming and all that shit.  PS – Five bucks to the person who can name the track and who it‘s by.  I still don‘t know, even though I have it in two different live sets on my laptop.)

Me:  I wanna do this the way I wanna do it.  I wanna determine my own destiny!  I don’t’ wanna be a mass personality.  I don’t wanna be a One Dimension.  I wanna be ME.  I wanna be Human!

Me:  We dress a certain way, we walk a certain way, we talk a certain way, we create a certain way,  we paint a certain way, we… we make love a certain way.  You know, all of these things we do in  a different… unique… specific way that is personally ours.  And we… decide… that it is time for us to… to take over our own lives.. And do it the way we know we wanna do it… as opposed to having someone else continually… depersonalize us… and tell us… how we’re supposed to do something because they are viewing us through THEIR eyes… not through Our Eyes.

Me:  If they couldn’t see it they could just feel it Naturally.
(end thread – stack forward)

She Enthusiastically agreed.

She ordered food and it had arrived and so during that time I used the TV commercial.

TV Commercial: I saw a commercial on TV that reminds me of this.  I can’t even remember what the hell it was for but the woman is eating with the man (the original sound bite I picked out of RJ teaching on a Video – He didn‘t tell anyone it was a pattern, he just did it.  I find that some of his best stuff is stuff he does but doesn‘t necessarily actively teach.  You gotta kinda pick it up.  His was, ”…the woman looks at the man…) “You know you want something… you can’t resist it any longer… you gotta have it… and the more you try to push it away…  the more you know you need it right… now.”

This girl was a polarity responder.  She was still pretty disagreeable up until  I started saying things like “You really shouldn’t allow yourself to relax and completely open yourself up to this experience, and let the good vibe penetrate deep inside you and fill you up to the point….  Blah blah blah.  OR.  You don’t have to blah blah blah.  I don’t really know what I said verbatim because this stuff, to attempt to kill her resistance, was on the fly. Finally after one particular, “You really shouldn’t… and some on the fly stuff I broke right into, “When you really feel that sense, of an incredible connection with a guy….”

Also, I can’t remember if this was before or after I.C. but I used the fact that she traveled as a segue into, “Isn’t it interesting how everyone is so different and yet in so many ways we’re all the same?…” which is another I.C. pattern.  Actually as I think about it I’m pretty sure “Isn’t it interesting…“ was first and standard I.C. was second because it was like this – after the Standard I.C. I saw that I had hit pay dirt – D.D.B. and enthusiastic response and the Polarity responses stopped.

I knew it was playtime and so it was Kino escalation in the way of first, Snoopy palm reading because she mentioned something about how I had some sort of insight about life or whatever so I was like, here I’ll read your palm, but this is totally just a bullshit kino thing and it’s fun – not serious at all.

Then “Let’s see if we fit.” and I’m sure in in this area there was twice that I did hand throws.

She was done eating and I suggested we leave and go somewhere else and we were gonna.  I was like,  “I gotta use the guys room first so brb.  I got up and as I did my brain was like, “Kiss her dude – at least on the cheek.” so I did and at the same time she said she had to go to the ladies room as well.  So we worked our way through and when I got to the little are near the Restrooms my mind was saying “You have to kiss her now dude! It’s time.” and I have learned that when the brains says shit like, “Time to kiss or Time to Fuck or whatever it IS – but we all know that already.”

So I said, “Comehere.” and she hesitated a little
Her:  What?
Me:  Come HERE – and then we kissed.

(please don’t come at me with shit about bathroom fucking – I have no idea what some guys are all fired up about fucking some girl in a Germy, nasty, smelly, dirty and uncomfortable place like a bathroom for but I have ABSOLUTELY no interest.)

I was in the bathroom and the drummer I saw for the band was in there and I joked with him about when they planned on going on.  It sounded like they were getting ready to start after he smoked.  I said,  You mean cigarettes or….?”

He laughed and responded with, “well… you know.”

So here’s where the night escalated.  The band went on and they were GREAT:  WE ordered another round of drinks instead of leaving.  They were called, The Brothers Groove

Soon I was kino escalating FAST with takeaways.  To her leg, “that’s all you get.” and the back of her neck where she started saying she loved it because she was catlike. I did shitloads of kino with takeaways finally getting to the point where when I was doing takeaways she was saying shit like, “Why did you stop?” or when I was twirling in her hand and took it away she looked at me and opened and closed her hand as if to say ,”WTF.”

Also she, at one point, picked up her coat that was placed between us and moved it and slid in right next to me.

And then soon after one neck deal I pulled away and when she said something, I said, “Say – More please.”

She was like, “moooorrre Pleeeaaassse!!!”

Now I know I missed the Discovery channel pattern part because I did half of it but then she said she hated amusement parks so I cut the thread while asking her what was something she did like, and busting on her saying, “Gokart tracks? Or Puttputt golf?”

Also it got to the point where I was doing Constant Kino even during my takeaways, even if it meant my knee touching her leg or whatever.  The rest of the stuff on the list above was in there I just don’t remember exactly where.

All I know is it was DONE DEAL but I liked the band and the vibe that place was giving off and so did she so we stayed for the first set.   We talked a little about what to do after with suggestions of where we could go.  Instead of talking loud I actually talked Quiet and Leaned in to say it in her ear while nuzzling her or whatever.  Once the Band’s first set was over it was simple.

Me:  So I suppose we could go check out some other places, or we could even go back to my art gallery home and read books from my library.

Her:  (smiling) We can go to your house.

We were here like 10 minutes, enough time for me to light candles and turn on some Portishead, Tricky, Bjork and Similar Sex music.  She laid on my couch.

And already knowing her answer I said, “So…  What do you feel like doing?”

Her with her eyes closed relaxing on my futon:  I want some Cuddle time.

I mean that was it.  Within a few minutes we were completely naked and My head bus buried between her legs and we went from there.  We stopped for a bit only so she could soak it in after screaming OMG! For five minutes straight.  I really think that there is an overlooked secret to orgasms and I try to encourage it in Women I hook up with.  The secret is simple.  When you have one DO NOT MOVE afterwards.  Sit there and let it soak in your head.  It’s like a Buzz but when people move around right after sex the buzz goes away.  So while she was laying there I simply said, Don’t move.  Just chill.  Relax.  Let it soak in.

And as is habit I went to the fridge to look for something to drink like beer or wine.  I was out!!!  After giving a girl an Great Orgasm I always want a drink and This time I had nothing.  SHIT!

So instead we after a bit we just moved to my bedroom.

Afterwards she got dressed and some things that stood out.  She kept making comments about how I was different and instead of biting on them I would continue talking about whatever as if I didn’t even notice them.  The reason was to instill it in her head.  Finally after one comment I ignored she remarked about it by making a face.

I said, “Look.  If I had money for every time people told me that I wouldn’t have to work.  I already told you that earlier.”

Her:  I know, but it’s one thing when you say it, and it’s completely different when I experience it for myself.

One other thing was that we were talking about the sex afterwards and I said, “So would you give it a 10?”
Her:  I mean…  (she paused and I started getting worried for a split second)
Her:  Yea.  I would.  That was one of the best I think I’ve ever had.
(I am NOT bullshitting you.  Learn the skills kids.  I will give you a hint of one thing she absolutely adored.  Me eating her out to match the beat of Portishead songs for starters.  If I didn’t hear this stuff a lot I would never believe it, but I do. All it takes is creativity.)

Finally she was telling me how comfortable she was at my home.  She also told me she was a bit of a Slut when she was growing up but that even so it was all social circle and that, “This is weird.  I don’t do this kinda stuff.”

Me:  Is it weird, or is it just different than what you’re used to experiencing?

Meanwhile she relayed that she was super comfortable around me and once when I told her, “You gotta go!”
Her response was simply, “No…  I’m ok.  I really comfortable here.” as if her being comfortable outweighed me telling her to go.

I was joking afterall but trying to sound serious.

That’s a long one.  She left the same night.  I got a text a bit ago saying,  I had a really good time with you on Friday.

I responded with:  I was just thinking about you.  We still on for tomorrow or would you wanna come over earlier, say tonight?

After a couple more minutes I sent another text to add fuel to the fire:  I think you left a little of your Yummy scent here to haunt me and keep reminding me of you, Jerk! Wink

The end…  (well at least for the purposes of this blog…)

Like I said if anyone wants details on any of this stuff I’ll hook it up.  Meanwhile Comment, Subscribe all that blah blah!

Ohhhh yeahh..  And of course I can teach you guys how to do this.  Check out my page at the top for a little about bootcamps and training.

Cheers!

Sonic’s Routines and Techniques

San Diego Seduction huddle 2

San Diego Seduction huddle 2 (Photo credit: Gordaen)

Check it out!  I know a lot of guys like routines.  I use them sometimes, sometimes I do not.  I have nothing against them, however since I think people tell stories to everyone they know, even if they aren’t trying to seduce them.  We all have things we say and do that are repetitive to the people in our life.  “My friend and I were at this party once and, dude, holy shit!  You should have seen what this one chick did.”

So my very short words of wisdom before we get into this Reblog is don’t get all kerfuckered about using routines.  It’s fine.  If it helps you get your mouth moving until you can do it more naturally then cool.  Or, like in my case, if I run out of stuff to say (very rare these days) or the conversation with a chick ends up touching on the subject of a routine I know (more likely) then I will use one!

Why am I reblogging this?  2 reasons.

1.  Sonics was my wing back in the day and he knew his shit!

2.  These are great routines.  Back on Masf, Sonics had a rating of Mastermind.

Enjoy!

Sonic’s Routines and Techniques

I really don’t like using routines more than a few times it seems a little weird to me (unless I’m in another city or I’ve been drinking or I’m plowing like crazy to pass the time until something better comes along, even plowing I barley use routines). However, I do use “routines” every now and then while sarging… mostly on the 9+’s

I’ve laid 23 different girls in the last year and a half and have only had two ONSs, the rest are/were short term FB type relationships; all with condoms, “evolve” Trojan Condoms. That’s after a 1.5 year pre-game dry spell; this game stuff is for real.

I’m not trying to brag. I’m not even really that good; I just want you guys to know that these routines and techniques do hold water and have some merit. Besides I like to believe that the gurus or Mpuas get a lot more ass than I do…

If you haven’t read a magazine lately, or been listening to radio personalities, and you don’t feel like talking about how EXCITED you were doing your homework when for the first time you got to apply ALL THREE newly learned rules to find the derivative of a logarithmic function (super easy; but still fun in an odd way) while your friends were out partying (school does have its downfalls), then this post should help you out.

Try not to judge me by some of the things written below, I play the game to have fun, enjoy my youth (24), and most importantly life in its entirety. Oh yeah and I really really like girls.

Well, here ya guys go, some of my first year’s best… They have all been field tested and each has been successfully used multiple times.

SONICS ORIGINALS:

Car Bluff Opener:
(Not big on openers but here’s one of the better ones I’ve come up with)

Pua: Hey, if someone leaves something in your car are you aloud to keep it?
HBs: depends blah
Pua: Well, what if it’s something you really want?
HBs: Depends, What is it?
Pua: Nevermind (then go from there, don’t tell em’, just change topics… “This one’s nosey!” Etc.)

Rich Girl: 
(A sort of linguistic trick that sets the frame of her admitting dating you as a possibility, fun one to play with… The first time I said it I got nervous for a second, and thought “did I really just ask that?” The girl said, “no, we’d split the bill” and it’s been with me ever since)

Pua: Are you rich?
HB: something (I’ve never had a girl say yes.)
Pua: So, how do expect to buy me a drink?
HB: Something
Pua: So, if we were dating you’d expect me to pay for everything?
HB: no dutch, or yes, I’m old fashion, or something else you can play with, bust on, or IOI for

Boyfriend Avoider:
(Use playfully, a subtle IOI. Sets frame you don’t care if she has a boyfriend, your better than him even if she does, and she can’t tell you if she does anyway… plus if she doesn’t have one, she gets to feel she saved face. Everybody wins)

Pua: Ok, I’m going to ask you a question… … but I don’t want you to answer it… Don’t ever tell me, ok?
HB: Ok
Pua: Do you have a boyfriend?…
HB: light laughs
Pua: Good, now you can’t say I never asked.

(#-Closed at least 2 girls with boyfriends later on in the interaction after this schpeal. One with a boyfriend of 4 years, the other had one for 6. Their friends told me when I was telling them I liked their friend. They helped me anyway, like good friends would.)

World Greats:
(dem smarterer gurls wike dis won. (< — that’s silly, I know) Girls that are interested and interesting will talk about this one with you, she gets to play along (if you can apply understanding to the routine), also good for late night party sets where everybody is kinda drunk just sitting around, you get to play teacher, guys like it too and girls like the guy that guys like, so… here. : )

Pua: Ok so I’ve been reading biographies lately about Einstein, Leonardo Da Vinci, Ghandi, even Mohammed Ali and I think I’ve noticed a loose process that they all seem to follow to achieve greatness. Well, here I’ll take you through it… pick an object, or a thing, living, or whatever…
HB: (says something, I’ll use a tree for this but whatever she says use that… it’s easy) a tree
Pua: Ok, now let’s make an observation about a tree. Tell me something about a tree
HB: They’re green
Pua: They’re not always green…
HB: Well yeah, they’re leaves change color in the fall
Pua: Exactly, that’s the first step to greatness. So trees aren’t always green, once a year they change color and their leaves fall off etc. that my dear is what’s known as knowledge. So what do you think happens after you make as many observations as you can about a tree, study all you can about a certain tree and gain a heap of knowledge? What do you think the next step towards greatness is called?
HB: something (if it sounds good add it into the next part)
Pua: After you attain all that knowledge then you become an expert. Well what’s the next step after expert?
HB: something (You’re having a clearly controlled convo! So remember to play with her answers for a sec)
Pua: I think they become Masters, in school terms these are your PHD kids… people that add to the already existing knowledge. Now after they master one thing, then the best master more things; either in the same field or they master multiple other things and become sort of like a scholar. This is when they become known as the Greats… Now, this is my favorite part *do a little dance and smile* Do you know what the greatest of the greats become, the true inspirations of the world that change our everyday life, the Greats that live beyond their days?
HB: something (let her ponder this for a second)
Pua: close, but this is when a truly great mind becomes … … a Legend.

(This is actually an altered convo my dad and I had a while back, switched it up and made it a routine, I really call it Legends, didn’t want to ruin the end for you.)

Love Lust:
(gets girls thinking about Love, Lust, and of course sex)

Pua: What is love like to you?
HB: Something
Pua: Love to me is like when your with that special someone and they’re like your best friend, like your driving through a tunnel at 100mph * motioning with hands like driving through a tunnel *and everything around you is a blur except for that one person, like that one other person is the only one in your world that matters.
HB: something and agrees
Pua: Have you ever felt lust? Or have you ever just really liked messing around with someone you weren’t in love with? What was that like to you?
HB: something
Pua: To me it’s like when your body heats up and you get this knot in your stomach that’s driving you crazy, and only like, the naughtiest activities can relieve it, like you’d be willing to drive 45 minutes at 1 AM just to relieve that tension… just, to explode… woa, ok ok I know Lust is bad; but SEX is soooooo gooooood!
HB: laughs Yeah it is

(When you’re running this actually be in love and when you’re talking about Love and act it out, get hot and horny when you’re talking about Lust. Don’t go overboard with this, be calibrating by her answers and give her just a little more than she gives you, the point of this, to me, is to give sex the perception of being fun and healthy, which it is.)

Shorter version: get in convo about Love then get in convo about Lust and then “I know lust is bad; but sex is soooo gooood!”

Two girls at one party:
(Jerk routine, use with caution good for girls with a party lifestyle, IF she laughs, you’re in. If she doesn’t, it’s not over, prolonged progress sure; but girls love drama : )

(Don’t say you’re a jerk then follow up with this story… just transition into it)

Pua: I was at one of my friends 21st birthday parties and she had all her friends over it was nuts… There was an ice louge, jungle juice, free shots, food galore… It was a Hawaiian themed party; she has a palm tree tattooed on her ass so it was appropriate. Well obviously I got pretty drunk that night and ended up hooking up with one of my friend’s friends; after we got done she mentioned breakfast for the next morning… We’ll see… When I’m not sure if I wanna do something I always say we’ll see… Well she ended up passing out and I wasn’t tired, so I went out for more partying! Then this other girl there pulled me into a bathroom down in the basement and basically left me with no choice, so I hooked up with her too!! She said the same crap about breakfast the next morning… her and I then took turns going back upstairs; split up and acted like nothing happened and partied some more. Finally, after all that drinking, I fell asleep on a floor alone next to a piano and when I woke up the second girl was spooning me!! Now, I knew these two girls were good friends, so I thought about going and sitting at the breakfast table with both of them and thought, no way! So, instead I took both their cell phones and put em’ in a kitchen drawer with a note that said “I kick ass!” with a hyphen and my first initial… Then I snuck out to breakfast and ate with my guy friends.

See Her Often Number Close Technique:
(Maintains prizability and sets you up perfectly to get “the girl you see and interact with often’s” number ex. Smoke break girl, colleague, girl in study hall… make sure you like the girl before you get her number this can mess things up socially)

(Say at the end of yet another interaction with this girl, hopefully sooner than later)

Pua: So, when are you going to ask for my number?
HB: something not negative (say this to girls you know like you, or to girls that you would like to like you : )
Pua: *hand her a pen and something to write on*

(I prefer numbers on paper, it feels more solid to me; but to each his own.)

Solidify a number close technique:
(Having “cute” fun after the number close)

On the back of the piece of paper, napkin, match book behind the matches whatever, or where ever there is room, I’ll play a quick game of tic- tac-toe and set it up as a challenge to see if she can beat me… ladies first… have fun with the results…

Side note: instead of having them draw a picture of themselves, I have them draw a symbol or picture of something that will remind me of them next to their number… they almost always draw their stalk doodle

Kiss Close Technique 1: 
(You know those drunk girls at a nightclub you don’t know that totally eye fu*k you while you’re walking towards each other… This is what I used to say before I kissed them. Now, if I decide to, I just get in their way and kiss em’ and avoid the possible shit test all together, which I think is better; but if you have to talk, try this.)

Pua: You soo wanna kiss me.
HB: something/ possible shit test you happen not to hear *while holding eye contact*
Pua: (said slower, hard to describe, I call it moment game) If you don’t wanna kiss me, stop looking at me in my eyes. *eyebrow raise smile and vacuum*
HB: *holds eye contact with smile* or *looks away then back at your eyes*
Pua: *Kisses the interested drunk bar girl*

Kiss Close Technique 2:
(This can be used just about anywhere; but it’s perfect for those day 2 moments when you two get back in your car after you just did whatever and you feel it in your gut that you should be kissing her… she knows it too, you know the moment. )

Pua: You’re about 75% sure you wanna kiss me right now…
HB: laughs (they always laugh)
Pua: Oh man, Now you’re 80% sure!
HB: laughs (the first time I said this, at this point the girl said that I was a 100% sure that I wanted to kiss her, doesn’t matter what she says stick to this)
Pua: OMG! Now you’re 95% sure! *leans in and kisses girl*or *falls off couch from spooning position with girl then kiss* or *awkwardly maneuvers over to the girl in shotgun and kisses her*

Lovely sex:
(this is kinda f-d up; only said this twice with about 5+ drinks down… worked both times)

(After the no pants in bed, after all the we shouldn’t be doing this, after the this is crazy talk, during a mini-freeze out (you just got to her first or second threshold and you lay on your back again totally cool and saying nothing) you bring up a short seduction thread)

Pua: You seem so familiar, your smell, your hair, your skin. Ahh!… (said lovingly excited) Tell me about your first love
HB: thinks about first love says something
Pua: I could totally fall in love with you in 10 seconds
HB: laughs
Pua: *has wonderful lovely sex*
(I’m pretty sure that at least the first one was thinking about her ex until we started going at it… kinda f-d up, I know; but who am I to judge?)

(p.s. I meant it both times, the girls did seem familiar; Even though I said this playfully, when I’m drunk I really can fall in love with an almost entirely naked hottie that’s laying next to me on my bed while I have a raging boner : )

Grocery Store Love:
(Tension loop. Use tension loops. Say this after you’ve had sex with the girl, not right after, well I guess that would work too… it’s good for the phones)

Pua: I fell in Love at the grocery store today (tension)
HB: With… what….. the cereal? (Followed by insecure laugh) or something
Pua: Well, I was walking through the store, minding my own doing my shopping, and I saw this piece of meat… I thought, too good to be true. So, then I approached, and dumbfounded by the sheer beauty I reached out and POKED, to see if what I saw was real… Sure enough… the porter house steaks were on sale for $4.97 a pound! (tension released) So of course I got some and when I got home I realized those bastard butchers cut off the filets!!
HB: Laughs

Last Girl:
(This is a spinoff)

(This story is perfect for the first phone call after you met a girl at a bar, talk with her for awhile first then launch into this. It’s a spinoff of some PUA guys routine; but I can’t remember his name? (I bought his “original-routine book” off ebay… it was 95% stuff I’d read elsewhere with some thesaurus usage!! I’m sure he’s a good PUA; but waste of money! However it did inspire this… I altered his and IMO made it better, I tweaked it and added to it to get the girl to qualify to you at the end))

Pua: Oh man, I don’t know about you girls I meet at bars… Well, the last girl I met at a bar, we ended up hooking up and seeing each other for awhile. One night she called me at 1:30 in the morning telling me she was all wasted at Tonic (just switch this to a night club in your area). She didn’t know where her friends were, she could barely walk, and she NEEDED me to go pick her up. In other words she was beyond wasted. So I got in my car and headed out there and when I got there, I went up to the entrance skipped past all the people still trying to get in, and I never go to Tonic so I didn’t know the bouncers and they wouldn’t let me in… I told em’ what was going on, about how my girl was in there drunk and she needed a ride home… No go… the bouncers wouldn’t budge. While the bouncer was checking the next ID, I stormed into the club ran past the money counter and started shoving my way through the people, she told me she was in the back sitting on a chair… so that’s where I was heading… While I was running I looked back and the huge silver back gorilla bouncer guy from the front and his huge angry bouncer buddy were chasing after me… I started pushing through faster… Luckily, I got to my girl right before they got to me and I calmly yelled “This is the girl I was telling you about and she’s 19 and she’s been drinking in your club! If you know what I mean.” At this point there were four bouncers surrounding me… Then something crazy happened… The same guys that were about to get all geeked up beating me with their flashlights out back were now helping me get her out! They were pushing for me! I had her arm draped over me and we waltzed right out of there. I got her to the parking lot and she muttered that she was sorry, and that it wouldn’t happen again blah blah… Trust me I like to drink as much as the next guy but seriously… Bar girls, I don’t know.

Here it is but shorter and you can make it your own: Drunk girl calls in need of help, you go to club, no way you can get in, run in behind bouncer, get to girl before bouncers get you, bouncers then help you out, you’re a hero, bar girls…I don’t know

Pat/Grab/Smack her Ass: 
Always be grabbing ass or patting ass or smacking ass (treat them as the way you want them to act! In this case playful and horny). Just DO IT… BT goes up right before your eyes. If you’re on a day 2 and you’re not sure where you stand, pat her on the ass and find out. She’ll be happy you did.

Make playful excuses to touch her butt:

Pua: Where‘s my cell phone? You totally stole it! *grab/pat her ass*
Pua: nope that’s your butt… where is it? Oh here it is… (in your pocket)

Grab Ass Game:
(I got this from a friend of mine. I’m sure he didn’t start it… but it’s a fun game that gets you and your wing laughing… Take turns, my wing and I do this pretty much everywhere.)

Every time a girl is walking by you two while you’re walking, take turns or go tandem at getting in cheap feels on the passing ass. This is too funny. Most of the girls have a good heart about this and laugh and smile, you can say things “I love you” and they’ll laugh and yell it back; but make sure you’re ready for the mad girl; she’ll get in your face. She just wants to hear a playful direct game apology. Ex. I’m sorry; but if I didn’t pat your tush I wouldn’t have gone home happy today. I love you My bad… *keep walking and be on your way to the next ass*

There, it’s done, finally. It took me about five days to throw this post together with all the juggling I have to do… Remember if you’re running a routine that’s more like a story, it should come out different every time, and always be noticing where she’s at. A routine isn’t everything and be willing to drop it, even if it’s money. When you’re telling a story or routine, say it like you want to hear it for yourself as much as you want the girl or set to hear it. Most importantly get out there, have fun, and enjoy yourself.

-Sonics

PS – Credit goes to where I reblogged this from:  Tricks Revealed: Exploring our Amazing World

Cheers!

Sidecar: 

I haven’t been blogging for a long time, because I’ve been busy coaching guys in the city of Chicago.  But now I’m back.

Anyway, ya.  I coach.  And my students get badass results.  I mean badass.  I would say after taking the bootcamp 90% of the guys get laid and many times they end up dating a girl or even multiple girls.  True story.  Anyway, if getting coaching interests you, even if you’ve taken another bootcamp and didn’t get the results you wanted, check my program out.  I promise there is nothing else out there like this!

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